“Ek amul,....with KINDNESS! - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

“Ek amul, tikha kam, kanda nai, kakdi zyada “

“1 amul sandwich , less spicy, no onion, add more cucumber.”

This is an overdue article, I was waiting for a proper example for this thought to be put through you dear patron.

When we think about Mohamadali road At Mumbai, MS, the first thought which comes in our heads is STREET FOOD AND SHOPPING!

Well here is located a small standing stall of GOLDENPOINT SANDWICH, Just by the general Post office.

I must be eating the famous AMUL SANDWICH here for like last 15years average 2 sandwiches per week.

What’s so unique about this we all get vegetables stacked with bread everywhere, why are you reading about this particular sandwich?

When I was a kid and we would go for a sandwich at this place there was always an Old Fat Uncle standing and when we would say “ek sandwich”!!! he would look at me with wide eyes and then wait for me to repeat my order and I would wonder what to say, I used to feel intimidated also sometimes with his demeanour and always would wonder why he does that?

Then eventually I learnt what I wanted so I started saying, “ek amul, tikha kam, kanda nai, kakdi zyada “……. This would make this Uncle Smile and very happily he would neatly cut my sandwich and present it to me appetizingly!

Over the years I learnt with this OLD Uncle that although sandwich is just bread n raw vegetables YET every sandwich will taste unique with him. Yes this is the quality that only this uncle standing at GOLDEN POINT SANDWICH can offer, he has the capacity of making that 1 sandwich special and unique for you.

It took him years to inculcate that habit in me every time I said 1-sandwich he will stare at me as if I committed a crime!!!! lol!!! and then every time I felt I wanted this and I dint want that in my sandwich and then the ek sandwich became ------“ek amul , tikha kam,kanda nai, kakdi zyada “

So this is kindness of this Fat man that I learnt to get what I wanted.

He taught me kindness. He taught me perfection. He gave me the thought that everything has the capacity to be unique.

Since 2years I started writing about Amber which is such a unique offer from the universe to us all,

We are reading learning knowing so many things about this wonder gemstone.

Here are some experiences I will share with you,

Many people come and talk about the prices of amber to me and show and give me big stories about the prices of amber, and here’s what I say to them;

The difference between the amber you are talking about and the amber I am giving is simple and straight FALSE x TRUE.

TRUE IS STRICT TRUE IS COSTLY TRUE IS KIND!

False ----- nO comments …..;;;;

I know today I am like this Old Man at Goldenpoint sandwich 15years back , who incessantly made and habituated every customer describe his/her  sandwich ……,

And today every person who eats a sandwich here has a unique taste on his tongue.

Always remember this world is filled with kinds and kinds and kinds of humans  

 THE ONLY QUALITY WHICH WILL MAKE YOU THAT UNIQUE HUMAN IS KINDNESS.

Yes kindness!

احسن الى من اساء اليك

Do good unto those who do bad / evil to you.

Be Kind, irrespective of your situation

 Your status

Your place

 Whatever

 However

 Whoever

 BE KIND.

 At Happy Homoeopathy I follow this rule, whatever the situation, being kind.

Achievement is a rule. And Kindness is the key to this achievement.

There are many amongst us who are unique who incessantly point out and only follow ethics.

Our Most unique example for this is MY AQA MAULA, RA, ‘SMB!’ and Our AQA MAULA, TUS.

Every second rather every micro second of HIS LIFE IS KINDNESS KINDNESS KINDNESS!!!

Why are we having problems amongst us?

Why do we feel Dr.Fatema will cheat us?

Why do we compete street stuff vs certified goods?

Why do we ask does Homoeopathy work????

Its just because we lack in kindness.

I know kindness is tough to practise it took me 7years of medical practice to learn it I’ve faced failures had my wins, learnt and learnt from every patient, learning every day.

Came across this one patient who came to me after visiting 3 separate mental health physicians for 3years; after meeting me she had one sentence for me “ Dr , you are the first one I came across during this ordeal who has been Kind to me and explained to me what I am suffering from.”

It just took me 10extra minutes to explain her situation to her, and that was kindness to her , because nobody ever did that to her it made things so simple and ethical for her because now she knew what medication she needed and such cases than heal quick. It just took kindness, for healing.

So as I understand being kind is now routine here at HAPPY HOMOEOPATHY, its nothing like a task, now every patient here is treated uniquely with their own tasty sandwiches.

Visit for your sandwich soon!

Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.

Your Happy Homoeopath.

NLP Consultant and Trainer.

Happy Handwriting Analysis expert and Teacher.

Amber/Kerba Consultant.

 Kindly Email at: dr.fatemapalgharwala@yahoo.com drfatemapalgharwala@gmail.com

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ANCIENT HISTORY 3 - Dr.Fatema Palgharwala Adnan

Mythology – Many diverse cultures carry primeval creation myths concerning the origins of amber. Ancient Grecian tales recount the story of the Heliades, who shed tears into the river Eridanus as they grieved the death of their brother Phaethon. The stories say that Phaethon was thrown into the river by Zeus as punishment for taking his golden chariot on a joyride across the sky and that the tears of the heart-sick sisters eventually hardened into drops of dazzling amber.

Ancient Chinese myths say that this warm and magical golden substance is the petrified soul of tigers. Primarily a symbol of good fortune and protection, the tiger is also associated with solar energy, summer and fire and is linked to the powers of attraction, protection and illumination.

Legends from the Polish Kushubian tribe, , say that amber is the result of great lightning strikes upon the earth. Lithuanian tales recount the unhappy love between Jurate, Goddess of the Baltics, and a fisherman named Kastytis.

In a fit of anger, Jurate’s father threw down a great bolt of lightning that shattered the amber palace on the bottom of the sea and drowned Kastytis along with his fishing boat. Since that day, waves have been endlessly washing fragments from the amber palace ashore and littering the Baltic Sea coastline with small pieces of amber which are the tears that the still grieving Jūratė continues to shed.

Ancients – The Greek poet Homer, writing as early as the 10th century B.C., made several references to amber in the Iliad and the Odyssey. Herodotus wrote about Baltic amber’s electrical properties in the 5th century B. C., they were well known even then, though that particular word would not be coined for centuries. Theophrastus, writing in the 4th century B.C., discusses Baltic amber in his work entitled On Stones. Theophrastus classified rocks based on their behavior when heated, and grouped minerals by common properties, such as amber and magnetite, both of which have strong powers of attraction.

Pliny the Elder tells us in his Naturalis Historia, published circa AD 77-79, that Baltic amber was called “northern gold” by both the ancient Greeks and the Romans and that by the time of the Emperor Nero (54-68 AD) a small amber statuette was worth more than a robust and healthy slave. According to the elder Pliny, a necklace of amber beads was well known to offer protection from several poisons as well as from “sorcery and witchcraft.”

Pliny the Younger recorded that Roman women wore amber pendants as adornments and also to ease “swollen glands, sore throat and palate.” Indeed, the ancient women of the original Italic tribes were especially fond of wearing Baltic amber for both its magical as well as its health enhancing properties. Due to the increasing demand for this magical healing substance, trade routes from the Italian peninsula to the Baltic Sea opened up and some were eventually paved by the Roman army.

Though no one knows the exact routes taken during the time of the Imperium Romanum, we do know that considerable amounts of raw Baltic amber were brought south from the Baltics to the Danube, through Eastern Europe and across the Julian Alps down to the Adriatic Sea and the lands of the Veneti people on the east coast of the Italic peninsula. The Veneti tribe, whose territory neighbored Pannonia, helped to popularize amber among the people of the Italian Peninsula. In antiquity, Aquileia was the largest town in this part of Italy, an important transportation crossroads and practically overflowing with Baltic amber craft workshops.

Towards the end of the 1st century CE, the artisans in Aquileia had mastered amber sculpting techniques. The smallest nuggets were made into assorted beaded necklaces and a great variety of other items were produced here as well, including rings, pins and pendants and coffers to hold them, knife, comb and mirror handles and boxes for cosmetics. Dionysian motifs and scenes were popular as were miniature leaves, shells, fish, and loaves of bread, pomegranates, figs, dates and grapes.

Among the most intriguing archaeological finds in this area of Italy are spinning staffs made of bronze rods with strings of amber beads wound around them. Spinning was the sacred work of women and natural amber was a spinner’s ally because its electrostatic properties attracted the raw fibers of wool, flax and hemp and so helped to lighten the work.

Strangers - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

STRANGERS – by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.
 Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. 
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. 
Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts.
 Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
-Calvin Coolidge


To judge between good or bad, between successful and unsuccessful would take the eye of a God.
-Anton Chekhov

I remember the first day at college when I was on the top of the world getting into the medical field and making way ahead in life …
Zoom!
Life is Forever! For me its gone rewind and fast forward until this day when 
Someone termed me unsuccessful!
I was smiling when I heard it!!
Being a doctor gets you many compliments and praises and infatuated approaches, the point is never let that go to your head.
Sometimes we keep doing something which we have decided is correct for all around us and forget to take and accept a Point of view.
This is what’s happened with him, he just couldn’t take a feedback and bashed at me.
This is an example of exaggeration, when you dwell on your past and just can’t have enough of it and stop understanding all those around you, start judging instead and make yourself god.
We all have come across such souls the point here is how to handle these kind,
Should you get angry on them when behave this way or tell them as you sow so shall you reap, or just stay calm.
With this experience I was wondering about the goodness around me, as kids in school we were taught don’t talk to strangers!
Don’t accept any chocolates and goodies from unknown people and this always fascinated me, in case we STOP MEETING STRANGERS HOW will the world work?
It’s just not possible.
As doctors we take an OATH to cure all.
And some emotional studies say, a doctor should avoid treating his own kith and kin.
Well so my family should go to a stranger and treat them and not me!
Strangers!!
We are asked to use Public transport more than personal vehicle …. Go green …. Environment saviour … and hello public transport is filled with stranger’s right.
I think I will go on with many examples like this I know we can’t do without strangers around us.
Here I am at UAE away from my family and who’s with me strangers and strangers and with my experience I love these wonderful strangers all around me, so much to learn and so much to do  
This person who termed me Unsuccessful knows me since last 10years and he judged me and why because he took me for granted.
We with our family we feel they are always with us always sticking and we tend to take them for granted and in that emotion we take wrong decisions about our own kin and kith ,
This is one of the reasons why many doctors agree to this point of refrain from practice on family members they say “your emotion will cloud your decision “
I disagree though, yet that’s just me.
I know we all need a magic wand to just know what one is doing is right and only right, we are so scared to leap, we are so scared someone might hurt us and thus stop our kids from going to strangers I know boldness is harmful sometimes, yet how do I obtain that discretion is that really possible,
Many people told me blogging is not professional,well again its just me , I prefer blogging because its easy and faster as yet.
How did I achieve my discretion about understanding a stranger , by my study of Graphology- Handwriting and Signature Analysis, which again is not conventional, my favourite scientist said “SCIENCE IS JUST THE BEST GUESS”; so I am happy I am a student of science and my guess is always the best!
So friends and readers and dear patrons- 
Strangers are delightful 
Strangers teach you well 
Let’s all be with each other and not judge each other!
As I always say Be Kind to our own selves and all around us.

With loads of love 
Your Happy Doctor,
Happy Homoeopathy
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Discount - Dulha. - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

DISCOUNT  DULHA – by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.
DISCOUN T – DISCOUNT – DISCOUNT 
Discount on every service.
Tv on karo--- its starts with SALE – SALE-SALE-
Grab Grab Grab !!! 

My goodness what a waste of money and effort. Imagine the kind of money these companies spend on such adverts. 
Make you buy stuff for ‘DISCOUNT’
At Clinic I face some visitors who will ask me for discount!! This SALE gene is so deep knit in our system now that we feel without discount there cannot be a transaction.
And we never realized how this SALE AND DISCOUNT system has ruined our businesses and relationships and personal growth.
How ?? 
Think !!
Many of us have the book “SECRET” it speaks about abundance right ?
Abundance !!
Don’t you realize DISCOUNT x ABUNDANCE 
Are antonyms to each other.
Its been a personal view whenever I have shopped the discount tag at the shop hasn’t attracted me.
I find the word discount feel ‘Cheap’
Imagine the lack of truthfulness and honesty when something which has a price tag of 100INR is put up for SALE at 70% discount , its seriously BAD business , Seriously unethical pricing .
Why cant we price optimum. Why waste time in stocking up things and then do CLEARANCE SALE 70% DISCOUNT.
The Prophet RA , has taught ethical pricing for goods and also encourage barter system. I am sure these teachings have a reason behind them.
Ethical pricing is a serious requirement of the hour, I don’t understand why some people find it easy to cheat , I work with honey, and I have experienced how this wonderful food from mother nature is manipulated and sold just to fill pockets, we know the latest example of Maggi.
There are very few places I shop at one of them being, fabindia where I get all my home and kitchen stuff , and they never have a discount going on , always new stock fresh stock and ethically priced stock, and they don’t advertise themselves .

You must be wondering why Dr.Fatema suddenly thought about discount and writing something out of her subject; well here is the reason.
Since my profiles online give away the fact that I am Single and well aged to get married and common sense I will be looking for  a Happy Groom for myself, I get advertisement calls from many matrimonial websites to open an account with them , the variety of “dulha.com”; the other day one of these websites called me and said Madam; we have a discount going on and now you can pay for 50 profiles and actually see 100 !!!!! LMAO,LOL,Hahhhaahahah ;;; I am feeling like santabanta here seriously .

Ultimately its all about quality and quantity. Why should I buy something at discount or I should buy something which is optimally priced; it’s a very important decision we should make,we all read about the sale websites and how they are extracting money by not so ethical means, the other day I read about jabong.com , and how it is making bad business by decreasing prices just to achieve numbers…. Its killing the common man economy.

The discount dulha call made me introspect about this new evil,and invoked my thoughts about it. 

You dear patrons and readers are discretional enough to decide.

As I always say Be Kind to our own selves and all around us.
With loads of love 
I always believe in abundance and My AQA MAULA TUS teaches me abundance ! I never ask for discount in blessings then why should I ask for discount and make someone suffer.
I wish we all start preferring ethical pricing in every mode of our life.
ameen,
Your Happy Doctor,
Happy Homoeopathy
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|EMPATHETIC| - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

EMPATHY:  the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

I was reading a few articles lately about latest advances in medicine and came across lot of writing about empathy.

They are saying doctors need empathy training doctors don’t know how to open a bad news with patients.

Doctors are medical machines who read reports and not patients.

Now my question isn’t that what clients come for to us?

The GOOGLE has made my life so easy and so hard

Before coming to me patients read the reports and Google it and come to me asking thousand unnecessary questions so thus Google have the empathy software?

A patient asked what is my lifespan. I knew this one, I mentioned 2years with follow ups, and to this the patient was unhappy because Google mentioned “a couple of years depending on the lifestyle”

My definition of

Counselling: Running about the bush with emotions.

Coaching: Clearing the unwanted emotional barriers and making you aware and strong.

And Doctors like me are trained in coaching, like for example when I have a terminal patient I always insist they write their WILL. Talk to their family tell them what they want and what should be done with religious areas also.

I remember a Case of Liver cancer came to me and was fast progress with little room for intervention, palliative was the option, he once told doctor I have a collection of very fine bone china crockery and I have never used it because I kept on procrastinating and then we did something for this which gave him that occasion to use that collection, that was fun and fulfilment.

I agree some doctors don’t handle such fields of palliative care yet that doesn’t mean nobody does, I know many colleagues who do a wonderful job in this.

My friend Mr.Mustafa Jetpurwala from LifeLine Blood donors does this every day, biscuits blankets and love with hugs to those who have never received it, why does he do that he feels happy to do that.

 And Happy Homoeopathy is proud to be associated with this “ONE MAN LOVE FACTORY.”

Imagine you enter my clinic and I see your reports and start sobbing and hugging you and crying and tell you … Dost … App marney waley ho !!! (translation in english "MY FRIEND YOU ARE GOING TO DIE!!!")

NO.

I sit on my chair steady and give him the best way ahead and to do that I fight back my tears I swallow my emotions and I make myself very strong.

It’s hard to play God and believe me dear patron it’s a task in which only my AQA MaulaTUS helps me, no books of empathy will teach me and no courses from empathy trainers can teach this art.

I will never be able to portray my emotions in words being pragmatic being simple and straight forward in approach is most important.Its kindness.

As my favourite Bones says Two plus two equals four. I put sugar in my coffee and it tastes sweet. The sun comes up because the world turns. These things are beautiful to me. There are mysteries I will never understand, but everywhere I look, I see proof that for every effect, there is a corresponding cause…even if I can’t see it. I find that reassuring.

Nothing in this universe happens just once, nothing; infinity goes in both directions. There is no unique event, no singular moment...

I don’t know how these dying people think about me because I see them die before they can say anything to me; I like to believe they are happy up above!

This is unlike my other articles which are always touching the happy side of life

Yet you know death is the happiest moment, of life.

I have always given my best to make it as happier for those facing it inevitably.

This is in memory of all those wonderful men, women, children who are now no more and taught me so much about life. Also the life of Aruna Shanbaugh; which shows euthanasia is not the way of life and never take the easy way out only because you had an option for escape.

With this I appeal say No to Euthanasia.

And

Happy Homoeopathy Clinic and Cancer Care is always Happy to be with you in your fight against the chronic.

With every bad case there is a happy survivor.

Never lose heart come to us and we are here to be with you.

Happy Homoeopathy – 09762688352, 0971557863353.

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CANCER IS FAST; HAPPY HOMOEOPATHY IS FASTER!

the A to Z for Chronic.

 the Empathy Symbol

Cancer Information : HAPPY HOMOEOPATHY CANCER MANAGEMENT AND CURE

Cancer has haunted human Kind since its onset and people believe and follow dogmatic methods as soon as they have a Cancer diagnosis in the family or for self ….

Em Dua kariye ke

Maula TUS hamesha bachave apnea from this disease.Ameen.

Here are some questions which my cancer patients have asked me and how they were benefitted by following homoeopathy

Homoeopathy is slow?? How will it cure my cancer ???

Reply: first of all there is no measure to ascertain that some medicine is slow and another fast ….Cure is the aim and unlike modern medicine homoeopathy does not only relieve symptoms it brings cure..Homoeopathy is the fastest medicine and if somebody has told you that it acts slow it’s a Myth …medicine cant be slow your dr can be !! cancer is a disease which works as follows and Only HOMOEOPATHY holds the Key to cure this Chaotic disease .

I Quote one Homoeopath here :

“The modern day oncology speaks that a single oncogene in the massive network of 100trillion cells in the human body is enough to set the system in chaos and present a picture of cancer if that is true then why do they refuse to accept the fact that a single simple homoeopathic remedy can set this system of chaos to discipline and cure cancer ?

This is the reason that modern day medicine fails with its aggressive chemo therapy and immunosuppressant {cyclosporine; methotrexate} cheats with the nature of inner biology by making the immune system handicapped and thus camouflaging cancer just to make it worse”

Homoeopathy are very small doses how can it treat such a big disease like cancer ???

As I have mentioned above that only one cell in your body can cause cancer and remember homoeopathic doses are small because they are energy medicine and not bulk chemicals and your doctor knows how to measure this energy and trigger your immunity enough to cause CURE of the Cancer …killing a cockroach with HIT only kills that particular cockroach it doesn’t bring an end to its breed ….

Here breeding is the aim not killing the cockroach.

Drawbacks your homoeopath faces ??

Only after the chemotherapy is done and the modern medicine doctor has said now they have no treatment left  you run towards “alternative” Medicine Homoepathy and expect miracles ???? How is That possible …only when Homoepathy is the first option there is complete recovery YET Homoepathy is so strong it works in certain cases and helps the patient go towards cure …. Yet There is a fine line

In cases where Only Homoeopathy was taken we have only seen recovery and there are examples all over the world ….My seniors have shown I have shown and My Juniors will show …

Decide well and take your best hope ahead ….

Next question ??

Homoeopathy medicine is made of Alcohol How can we take alcohol its Haram ???

My answer – Please understand That Alcohol as a substance is not Haram ….. INTOXIFICATION  is Haram … !!! Alcohol in certain compositions causes INTOXIFICATION  and Thus UNIVERSALLY termed as Haram ,,,,, But That is Not The case Dear Friends ,Alcohol is a PRESERVATIVE and Homoeopathy Medicines are preserved by it and this Alcohol DOES not CAUSE INTOXIFICATION….. so Its not Haram .I don’t Understand why this question arises on the first place Because If Homoeopathy would be Haram students would never Get RAZA of Studying Homoeopathy Medical Science and Homoeopaths would never be employed at Saifee Hospital !!!!

I Only Hope That Inshallah Happy Homoeopathy Can Help you…

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