EMPATHY: the ability to
understand and share the feelings of another.
I was reading a few articles lately about latest advances
in medicine and came across lot of writing about empathy.
They are saying doctors need empathy training doctors don’t
know how to open a bad news with patients.
Doctors are medical machines who read reports and not
patients.
Now my question isn’t that what clients come for to us?
The GOOGLE has made my life so easy and so hard
Before coming to me patients read the reports and Google
it and come to me asking thousand unnecessary questions so thus Google have the
empathy software?
A patient asked what is my lifespan. I knew this one, I mentioned
2years with follow ups, and to this the patient was unhappy because Google
mentioned “a couple of years depending on the lifestyle”
My definition of
Counselling: Running about the bush with emotions.
Coaching: Clearing the unwanted emotional barriers and
making you aware and strong.
And Doctors like me are trained in coaching, like for
example when I have a terminal patient I always insist they write their WILL. Talk
to their family tell them what they want and what should be done with religious
areas also.
I remember a Case of Liver cancer came to me and was fast
progress with little room for intervention, palliative was the option, he once
told doctor I have a collection of very fine bone china crockery and I have never
used it because I kept on procrastinating and then we did something for this
which gave him that occasion to use that collection, that was fun and fulfilment.
I agree some doctors don’t handle such fields of
palliative care yet that doesn’t mean nobody does, I know many colleagues who
do a wonderful job in this.
My friend Mr.Mustafa Jetpurwala from LifeLine Blood donors
does this every day, biscuits blankets and love with hugs to those who have
never received it, why does he do that he feels happy to do that.
And Happy
Homoeopathy is proud to be associated with this “ONE MAN LOVE FACTORY.”
Imagine you enter my clinic and I see your reports and
start sobbing and hugging you and crying and tell you … Dost … App marney waley
ho !!!
NO.
I sit on my chair steady and give him the best way ahead
and to do that I fight back my tears I swallow my emotions and I make myself
very strong.
It’s hard to play God and believe me dear patron it’s a task
in which only my AQA MaulaTUS helps me, no books of empathy will teach me and
no courses from empathy trainers can teach this art.
I will never be able to portray my emotions in words being
pragmatic being simple and straight forward in approach is most important.Its
kindness.
As my favourite Bones says Two plus two equals four. I put sugar in my coffee and it tastes sweet.
The sun comes up because the world turns. These things are beautiful to me.
There are mysteries I will never understand, but everywhere I look, I see proof
that for every effect, there is a corresponding cause…even if I can’t see it. I
find that reassuring.
Nothing in this universe
happens just once, nothing; infinity goes in both directions. There is no
unique event, no singular moment...
I don’t know how these dying people think about me because
I see them die before they can say anything to me; I like to believe they are
happy up above!
This is unlike my other articles which are always touching
the happy side of life
Yet you know death is the happiest moment, of life.
I have always given my best to make it as happier for those
facing it inevitably.
This is in memory of all those wonderful men, women,
children who are now no more and taught me so much about life. Also the life of
Aruna Shanbaugh; which shows euthanasia is not the way of life and never take
the easy way out only because you had an option for escape.
With this I appeal say No to Euthanasia.
And
Happy Homoeopathy Clinic and Cancer Care is always Happy
to be with you in your fight against the chronic.
With every bad case there is a happy survivor.
Never lose heart come to us and we are here to be with
you.
Happy Homoeopathy – 09762688352, 0971557863353.
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IS FAST; HAPPY HOMOEOPATHY IS FASTER!
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