Strangers - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

STRANGERS – by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.
 Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. 
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. 
Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts.
 Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
-Calvin Coolidge


To judge between good or bad, between successful and unsuccessful would take the eye of a God.
-Anton Chekhov

I remember the first day at college when I was on the top of the world getting into the medical field and making way ahead in life …
Zoom!
Life is Forever! For me its gone rewind and fast forward until this day when 
Someone termed me unsuccessful!
I was smiling when I heard it!!
Being a doctor gets you many compliments and praises and infatuated approaches, the point is never let that go to your head.
Sometimes we keep doing something which we have decided is correct for all around us and forget to take and accept a Point of view.
This is what’s happened with him, he just couldn’t take a feedback and bashed at me.
This is an example of exaggeration, when you dwell on your past and just can’t have enough of it and stop understanding all those around you, start judging instead and make yourself god.
We all have come across such souls the point here is how to handle these kind,
Should you get angry on them when behave this way or tell them as you sow so shall you reap, or just stay calm.
With this experience I was wondering about the goodness around me, as kids in school we were taught don’t talk to strangers!
Don’t accept any chocolates and goodies from unknown people and this always fascinated me, in case we STOP MEETING STRANGERS HOW will the world work?
It’s just not possible.
As doctors we take an OATH to cure all.
And some emotional studies say, a doctor should avoid treating his own kith and kin.
Well so my family should go to a stranger and treat them and not me!
Strangers!!
We are asked to use Public transport more than personal vehicle …. Go green …. Environment saviour … and hello public transport is filled with stranger’s right.
I think I will go on with many examples like this I know we can’t do without strangers around us.
Here I am at UAE away from my family and who’s with me strangers and strangers and with my experience I love these wonderful strangers all around me, so much to learn and so much to do  
This person who termed me Unsuccessful knows me since last 10years and he judged me and why because he took me for granted.
We with our family we feel they are always with us always sticking and we tend to take them for granted and in that emotion we take wrong decisions about our own kin and kith ,
This is one of the reasons why many doctors agree to this point of refrain from practice on family members they say “your emotion will cloud your decision “
I disagree though, yet that’s just me.
I know we all need a magic wand to just know what one is doing is right and only right, we are so scared to leap, we are so scared someone might hurt us and thus stop our kids from going to strangers I know boldness is harmful sometimes, yet how do I obtain that discretion is that really possible,
Many people told me blogging is not professional,well again its just me , I prefer blogging because its easy and faster as yet.
How did I achieve my discretion about understanding a stranger , by my study of Graphology- Handwriting and Signature Analysis, which again is not conventional, my favourite scientist said “SCIENCE IS JUST THE BEST GUESS”; so I am happy I am a student of science and my guess is always the best!
So friends and readers and dear patrons- 
Strangers are delightful 
Strangers teach you well 
Let’s all be with each other and not judge each other!
As I always say Be Kind to our own selves and all around us.

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|EMPATHETIC| - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

EMPATHY:  the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

I was reading a few articles lately about latest advances in medicine and came across lot of writing about empathy.

They are saying doctors need empathy training doctors don’t know how to open a bad news with patients.

Doctors are medical machines who read reports and not patients.

Now my question isn’t that what clients come for to us?

The GOOGLE has made my life so easy and so hard

Before coming to me patients read the reports and Google it and come to me asking thousand unnecessary questions so thus Google have the empathy software?

A patient asked what is my lifespan. I knew this one, I mentioned 2years with follow ups, and to this the patient was unhappy because Google mentioned “a couple of years depending on the lifestyle”

My definition of

Counselling: Running about the bush with emotions.

Coaching: Clearing the unwanted emotional barriers and making you aware and strong.

And Doctors like me are trained in coaching, like for example when I have a terminal patient I always insist they write their WILL. Talk to their family tell them what they want and what should be done with religious areas also.

I remember a Case of Liver cancer came to me and was fast progress with little room for intervention, palliative was the option, he once told doctor I have a collection of very fine bone china crockery and I have never used it because I kept on procrastinating and then we did something for this which gave him that occasion to use that collection, that was fun and fulfilment.

I agree some doctors don’t handle such fields of palliative care yet that doesn’t mean nobody does, I know many colleagues who do a wonderful job in this.

My friend Mr.Mustafa Jetpurwala from LifeLine Blood donors does this every day, biscuits blankets and love with hugs to those who have never received it, why does he do that he feels happy to do that.

 And Happy Homoeopathy is proud to be associated with this “ONE MAN LOVE FACTORY.”

Imagine you enter my clinic and I see your reports and start sobbing and hugging you and crying and tell you … Dost … App marney waley ho !!! (translation in english "MY FRIEND YOU ARE GOING TO DIE!!!")

NO.

I sit on my chair steady and give him the best way ahead and to do that I fight back my tears I swallow my emotions and I make myself very strong.

It’s hard to play God and believe me dear patron it’s a task in which only my AQA MaulaTUS helps me, no books of empathy will teach me and no courses from empathy trainers can teach this art.

I will never be able to portray my emotions in words being pragmatic being simple and straight forward in approach is most important.Its kindness.

As my favourite Bones says Two plus two equals four. I put sugar in my coffee and it tastes sweet. The sun comes up because the world turns. These things are beautiful to me. There are mysteries I will never understand, but everywhere I look, I see proof that for every effect, there is a corresponding cause…even if I can’t see it. I find that reassuring.

Nothing in this universe happens just once, nothing; infinity goes in both directions. There is no unique event, no singular moment...

I don’t know how these dying people think about me because I see them die before they can say anything to me; I like to believe they are happy up above!

This is unlike my other articles which are always touching the happy side of life

Yet you know death is the happiest moment, of life.

I have always given my best to make it as happier for those facing it inevitably.

This is in memory of all those wonderful men, women, children who are now no more and taught me so much about life. Also the life of Aruna Shanbaugh; which shows euthanasia is not the way of life and never take the easy way out only because you had an option for escape.

With this I appeal say No to Euthanasia.

And

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LANGUAGE:YOUR POWER:POINT TO PONDER. - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

I remember my dad teaching me the power of language at a very young age. Not only did my dad understand that specific words affect our mental pictures, but he understood words are a powerful programming factor in lifelong success.One particularly interesting event occurred when I was eight. As a kid, I was always climbing trees, poles, and literally hanging around upside down from the rafters of our lake house. So, it came to no surprise for my dad to find me at the top of a 30-foot tree swinging back and forth. My little eight-year-old brain didn't realize the tree could break or I could get hurt. I just thought it was fun to be up so high.My older cousin, Tammy,was also in the same tree. She was hanging on the first big limb, about ten feet below me. Tammy's mother also noticed us at the exact time my dad did. About that time a huge gust of wind came over the tree. I could hear the leaves start to rattle and the tree begin to sway. I remember my dad's voice over the wind yell, "Bart, Hold on tightly." So I did. The next thing I know, I heard Tammy screaming at the top of her lungs, laying flat on the ground. She had fallen out of the tree.I scampered down the tree to safety. My dad later told me why she fell and I did not. Apparently, when Tammy's mother felt the gust of wind, she yelled out, "Tammy, don't fall!" And Tammy did fall. My dad then explained to me that the mind has a very difficult time processing a negative image.In fact, people who rely on internal pictures cannot see a negative at all. In order for Tammy to process the command of not falling, her nine-year-old brain had to first imagine falling, then try to tell the brain not to do what it just imagined. Whereas, my eight-year-old brain instantly had an internal image of me hanging on tightly.This concept is especially useful when you are attempting to break a habit or set a goal. You can't visualize not doing something.The only way to properly visualize not doing something is to actually find a word for what you want to do and visualize that.For example, when I was thirteen years old, I played for my junior high school football team. I tried so hard to be good, but I just couldn't get it together at that age. I remember hearing the words run through my head as I was running out for a pass, "Don't drop it!" Naturally, I dropped the ball. My coaches were not skilled enough to teach us proper "self-talk." They just thought some kids could catch and others couldn't. I'll never make it pro, but I'm now a pretty good Sunday afternoon football player, because all my internal dialogue is positive and encourages me to win.I wish my dad had coached me playing football instead of just climbing trees. I might have had a longer football career. If our parents can set a lifetime of programming with one wrong statement, imagine the kind of programming you are doing on a daily basis with your own internal dialogue.Here is a list of Toxic Vocabulary words. Notice when you or other people use them.   Ø But: Negates any words that are stated before it.   Ø Try: Presupposes failure.   Ø If: Presupposes that you may not.   Ø Might: It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener..   Ø Would Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen.   Ø Should Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen implies guilt  Ø Could Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen but the person tries to take credit as if it did happen.Ø Can't/Don't: These words force the listener to focus on exactly the opposite of what you want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing the damage of this linguistic error.Example-1:Toxic phrase: "Don't drop the ball!"Likely result: Drops the ballBetter language: "Catch the ball!"* *Example-2:Toxic phrase: "You shouldn't watch so much television."Likely result: Watches more television.Better language: "I read too much television makes people stupid.EXCERPTS FROM WHAT I READ ! extracting


for you patrons
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SCIENCE NOT MAGIC !! GRAPHOLOGY- HANDWRITING AND SIGNATURE ANALYSIS. - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

I hear it every day from my clients Dr you have a doctors handwriting which only a pharmacist will read!

Here is a very good article by someone from the reporting world:

“I have to say, my handwriting looked quite neat and legible to me. There were several others whose handwriting is much worse.

Anyway, something about it always fascinated me about handwriting. I felt that there was a reason why everyone had a unique handwriting and why the “class clowns” always wrote with large, inflated letters and the introverted studious guys wrote with small, cramped up and timid letters.

Some three years ago, I was watching
the movie Sherlock Holmes – you know the one with Robert Downey Jr. as Sherlock and Jude Law as Watson. Sherlock takes the signature of Professor Moriarty and asks him if he was familiar with graphology, or the study of handwriting to uncover the personality of the writer. He then went on to describe the personality of Professor Moriarty – ingenious, excellent associative abilities but a complete lack of any moral sense and criminal tendencies.

Wow! So much from a person’s handwriting? I immediately looked up graphology, found a tutor and then started my study of graphology or handwriting analysis.

Graphology is a scientific study which originated some time back in France and is now widely used in European countries such as France, Germany,
Italy and Spain for personnel screening, vocational guidance and in psychology and criminology. No, no it has nothing to do with the occult. A graphologist is not a psychic or a fortune teller!

Rather, graphology attempts to scientifically study handwriting in order to uncover various facets of personality such as intellectual and creative abilities, integrity, determination to succeed, communication skills, personal drive, productivity, aptitude, vulnerability to stress, defences, fears and inhibitions, to name a few. Being a cost-effective, accurate and valid personality assessment tool, around 80 per cent of the companies in France hire graphologists to aid them in personnel screening. Another advantage is that handwriting cannot be easily faked, unlike other tests where candidates
are required to answer True or False questions or rating a statement on a scale of 1-5.

Being a handwriting analyst, also called a graphologist, I often hear the question, “But no one writes anymore… It’s all typing. What will you do when writing becomes obsolete?”

My answer is two-fold. One, I sincerely hope that handwriting never becomes obsolete. Two, if it does I wouldn’t be as worried about myself as I would be about your children and grandchildren. As the psychotherapist and graphologist Annette Poizner says, future generations, without handwriting, would have a weak right brain-left brain coordination, which would result in impaired memory power, Attention Deficit Disorder, more learning disabilities, underdeveloped fine motor skills and difficulties with

expressiveness. I, on the other hand, would still be able to continue my job with other projective techniques.

Yes, there are several benefits to writing with our hands instead of typing. These include better fine motor skills, fluidity and ease of communication, memory skills and more developed adult-like neural connections, which cannot be developed by typing. The pen is mightier than the keyboard!

There is no “good” or “bad” handwriting. It is your personality…”

For more about Graphology; go through my previous articles and case studies.

Remember Graphology is a Science and every science when was not understood well is termed magic!
While writing the Graphology thesis I was so scared of failure and then I had the chance of showing my thesis to AQAMAULA,RA and see the power today its evident in every word I write, thats my MaulaTUS power unlimited! 

I am not a psychic I am a Graphologist.

Dr.Fatema Palgharwala

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