Strangers - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

STRANGERS – by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.
 Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. 
Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. 
Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts.
 Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.
-Calvin Coolidge


To judge between good or bad, between successful and unsuccessful would take the eye of a God.
-Anton Chekhov

I remember the first day at college when I was on the top of the world getting into the medical field and making way ahead in life …
Zoom!
Life is Forever! For me its gone rewind and fast forward until this day when 
Someone termed me unsuccessful!
I was smiling when I heard it!!
Being a doctor gets you many compliments and praises and infatuated approaches, the point is never let that go to your head.
Sometimes we keep doing something which we have decided is correct for all around us and forget to take and accept a Point of view.
This is what’s happened with him, he just couldn’t take a feedback and bashed at me.
This is an example of exaggeration, when you dwell on your past and just can’t have enough of it and stop understanding all those around you, start judging instead and make yourself god.
We all have come across such souls the point here is how to handle these kind,
Should you get angry on them when behave this way or tell them as you sow so shall you reap, or just stay calm.
With this experience I was wondering about the goodness around me, as kids in school we were taught don’t talk to strangers!
Don’t accept any chocolates and goodies from unknown people and this always fascinated me, in case we STOP MEETING STRANGERS HOW will the world work?
It’s just not possible.
As doctors we take an OATH to cure all.
And some emotional studies say, a doctor should avoid treating his own kith and kin.
Well so my family should go to a stranger and treat them and not me!
Strangers!!
We are asked to use Public transport more than personal vehicle …. Go green …. Environment saviour … and hello public transport is filled with stranger’s right.
I think I will go on with many examples like this I know we can’t do without strangers around us.
Here I am at UAE away from my family and who’s with me strangers and strangers and with my experience I love these wonderful strangers all around me, so much to learn and so much to do  
This person who termed me Unsuccessful knows me since last 10years and he judged me and why because he took me for granted.
We with our family we feel they are always with us always sticking and we tend to take them for granted and in that emotion we take wrong decisions about our own kin and kith ,
This is one of the reasons why many doctors agree to this point of refrain from practice on family members they say “your emotion will cloud your decision “
I disagree though, yet that’s just me.
I know we all need a magic wand to just know what one is doing is right and only right, we are so scared to leap, we are so scared someone might hurt us and thus stop our kids from going to strangers I know boldness is harmful sometimes, yet how do I obtain that discretion is that really possible,
Many people told me blogging is not professional,well again its just me , I prefer blogging because its easy and faster as yet.
How did I achieve my discretion about understanding a stranger , by my study of Graphology- Handwriting and Signature Analysis, which again is not conventional, my favourite scientist said “SCIENCE IS JUST THE BEST GUESS”; so I am happy I am a student of science and my guess is always the best!
So friends and readers and dear patrons- 
Strangers are delightful 
Strangers teach you well 
Let’s all be with each other and not judge each other!
As I always say Be Kind to our own selves and all around us.

With loads of love 
Your Happy Doctor,
Happy Homoeopathy
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Discount - Dulha. - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

DISCOUNT  DULHA – by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.
DISCOUN T – DISCOUNT – DISCOUNT 
Discount on every service.
Tv on karo--- its starts with SALE – SALE-SALE-
Grab Grab Grab !!! 

My goodness what a waste of money and effort. Imagine the kind of money these companies spend on such adverts. 
Make you buy stuff for ‘DISCOUNT’
At Clinic I face some visitors who will ask me for discount!! This SALE gene is so deep knit in our system now that we feel without discount there cannot be a transaction.
And we never realized how this SALE AND DISCOUNT system has ruined our businesses and relationships and personal growth.
How ?? 
Think !!
Many of us have the book “SECRET” it speaks about abundance right ?
Abundance !!
Don’t you realize DISCOUNT x ABUNDANCE 
Are antonyms to each other.
Its been a personal view whenever I have shopped the discount tag at the shop hasn’t attracted me.
I find the word discount feel ‘Cheap’
Imagine the lack of truthfulness and honesty when something which has a price tag of 100INR is put up for SALE at 70% discount , its seriously BAD business , Seriously unethical pricing .
Why cant we price optimum. Why waste time in stocking up things and then do CLEARANCE SALE 70% DISCOUNT.
The Prophet RA , has taught ethical pricing for goods and also encourage barter system. I am sure these teachings have a reason behind them.
Ethical pricing is a serious requirement of the hour, I don’t understand why some people find it easy to cheat , I work with honey, and I have experienced how this wonderful food from mother nature is manipulated and sold just to fill pockets, we know the latest example of Maggi.
There are very few places I shop at one of them being, fabindia where I get all my home and kitchen stuff , and they never have a discount going on , always new stock fresh stock and ethically priced stock, and they don’t advertise themselves .

You must be wondering why Dr.Fatema suddenly thought about discount and writing something out of her subject; well here is the reason.
Since my profiles online give away the fact that I am Single and well aged to get married and common sense I will be looking for  a Happy Groom for myself, I get advertisement calls from many matrimonial websites to open an account with them , the variety of “dulha.com”; the other day one of these websites called me and said Madam; we have a discount going on and now you can pay for 50 profiles and actually see 100 !!!!! LMAO,LOL,Hahhhaahahah ;;; I am feeling like santabanta here seriously .

Ultimately its all about quality and quantity. Why should I buy something at discount or I should buy something which is optimally priced; it’s a very important decision we should make,we all read about the sale websites and how they are extracting money by not so ethical means, the other day I read about jabong.com , and how it is making bad business by decreasing prices just to achieve numbers…. Its killing the common man economy.

The discount dulha call made me introspect about this new evil,and invoked my thoughts about it. 

You dear patrons and readers are discretional enough to decide.

As I always say Be Kind to our own selves and all around us.
With loads of love 
I always believe in abundance and My AQA MAULA TUS teaches me abundance ! I never ask for discount in blessings then why should I ask for discount and make someone suffer.
I wish we all start preferring ethical pricing in every mode of our life.
ameen,
Your Happy Doctor,
Happy Homoeopathy
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|EMPATHETIC| - by Dr.Fatema Palgharwala.@ #HappyHomoeopathy Clinic

EMPATHY:  the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

I was reading a few articles lately about latest advances in medicine and came across lot of writing about empathy.

They are saying doctors need empathy training doctors don’t know how to open a bad news with patients.

Doctors are medical machines who read reports and not patients.

Now my question isn’t that what clients come for to us?

The GOOGLE has made my life so easy and so hard

Before coming to me patients read the reports and Google it and come to me asking thousand unnecessary questions so thus Google have the empathy software?

A patient asked what is my lifespan. I knew this one, I mentioned 2years with follow ups, and to this the patient was unhappy because Google mentioned “a couple of years depending on the lifestyle”

My definition of

Counselling: Running about the bush with emotions.

Coaching: Clearing the unwanted emotional barriers and making you aware and strong.

And Doctors like me are trained in coaching, like for example when I have a terminal patient I always insist they write their WILL. Talk to their family tell them what they want and what should be done with religious areas also.

I remember a Case of Liver cancer came to me and was fast progress with little room for intervention, palliative was the option, he once told doctor I have a collection of very fine bone china crockery and I have never used it because I kept on procrastinating and then we did something for this which gave him that occasion to use that collection, that was fun and fulfilment.

I agree some doctors don’t handle such fields of palliative care yet that doesn’t mean nobody does, I know many colleagues who do a wonderful job in this.

My friend Mr.Mustafa Jetpurwala from LifeLine Blood donors does this every day, biscuits blankets and love with hugs to those who have never received it, why does he do that he feels happy to do that.

 And Happy Homoeopathy is proud to be associated with this “ONE MAN LOVE FACTORY.”

Imagine you enter my clinic and I see your reports and start sobbing and hugging you and crying and tell you … Dost … App marney waley ho !!! (translation in english "MY FRIEND YOU ARE GOING TO DIE!!!")

NO.

I sit on my chair steady and give him the best way ahead and to do that I fight back my tears I swallow my emotions and I make myself very strong.

It’s hard to play God and believe me dear patron it’s a task in which only my AQA MaulaTUS helps me, no books of empathy will teach me and no courses from empathy trainers can teach this art.

I will never be able to portray my emotions in words being pragmatic being simple and straight forward in approach is most important.Its kindness.

As my favourite Bones says Two plus two equals four. I put sugar in my coffee and it tastes sweet. The sun comes up because the world turns. These things are beautiful to me. There are mysteries I will never understand, but everywhere I look, I see proof that for every effect, there is a corresponding cause…even if I can’t see it. I find that reassuring.

Nothing in this universe happens just once, nothing; infinity goes in both directions. There is no unique event, no singular moment...

I don’t know how these dying people think about me because I see them die before they can say anything to me; I like to believe they are happy up above!

This is unlike my other articles which are always touching the happy side of life

Yet you know death is the happiest moment, of life.

I have always given my best to make it as happier for those facing it inevitably.

This is in memory of all those wonderful men, women, children who are now no more and taught me so much about life. Also the life of Aruna Shanbaugh; which shows euthanasia is not the way of life and never take the easy way out only because you had an option for escape.

With this I appeal say No to Euthanasia.

And

Happy Homoeopathy Clinic and Cancer Care is always Happy to be with you in your fight against the chronic.

With every bad case there is a happy survivor.

Never lose heart come to us and we are here to be with you.

Happy Homoeopathy – 09762688352, 0971557863353.

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CANCER IS FAST; HAPPY HOMOEOPATHY IS FASTER!

the A to Z for Chronic.

 the Empathy Symbol

GEMS & GEMSTONES by DR.FATEMA

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D’aaim ul Islam Vol. 2

When water is mixed with milk or honey or with things that are permissible to eat or drink such as dates, raisins or other solvent foods; the mixture is lawful to drink until such time as its character changes as a result of fermentation or boiling.

The pulp of grapes, raisins and dates which is cooked to boiling point and turned into syrup to a consistency like that of honey is also lawful to drink, either concentrated or diluted with water so long as it is not fermented. It is lawful to eat, drink, buy or sell and make use of this syrup.

Molana Ali (as) used to purify thick pressed grape juice as described above.

Imam Mohammed ul Baqir (as) was asked about drinking grape juice and he replied that there was no harm in drinking it from a clean vessel that had not been contaminated by wine. ‘Drink it at any time during the day or the night as long as a large quantity of it does not intoxicate for when a large quantity causes intoxication then even the smallest quantity is forbidden.

Means all medicines having any type of alcohol is FORBIDDEN

Do not drink it lest it result in lasting disgrace; for after an hour or overnight the pleasure of wine disappears but its sin remains. So be wary of Allah and assess yourselves for verily the Shi’a of Ali (as) are known for their piety (adherence to the Shariah), constant endeavour (through expending one’s

self and one’s wealth), safeguarding (through consistency of action), avoidance of malice and love of Awliyaullah (as).

Imam J’afar al-Sadiq (as) said, “There is no harm in drinking the juice that seeps from fruit before it ferments so long as it does not intoxicate.

Molana Ali (as) said, ‘We used to soak raisins or dates in a vessel of water to sweeten it for Rasulallah (sa). For a day or two he used to drink from it but if the taste changed he ordered it be thrown away.

Imam J’afar al Sadiq (as) states, ‘The lawful drinking of ‘nabidh’ (fruits steeped in water) is to drink it on the same day or the next but when it changes (ie ferments) then do not drink it. We (the Imams) drink it sweet before it ferments.

The Imam further states, ‘The water of Zamzam had a salty taste and the Arabs would throw dates into it to make it sweet.’

FOR ALL DR'S [A GREAT KALAM ] PLEASE CONTEMPLATE

Molana Ali (as) states, ‘Do not bear affection towards he that considers an intoxicant to be lawful. Verily the drinker of wine, with that it is forbidden, will find it easier a death than the one who considers it lawful,or declares it to be lawful, even though he does not drink it himself. His declaration of the lawfulness [of intoxicants] is sufficient for [his] disapproval and rejection of that which the Prophet has brought [ie Islam, the Shari'a] and his preference to be with devilish.’

MY GOODNESS  HOW  CAREFUL WE  DRs  MUST BE !!! ISN'T IT ??

Imam Sadiq (as) states, ‘The one that consumes an intoxicant; loses his mind and the essence of faith (imaan) decamps from him.’

SO MUCH IMAANDAARI ALREADY LOST THESE DAYS ISN'T IT THAT MOST OF US  HAVE CONSUMED,APPLIED LOT OF INTOXICANTS[unknowingly] JUST ON THE PRETEXT THAT SMALL QUANTITY IS ALLRIGHT,IN MEDICINES,FOOD STUFFS ETC HARAM MASALAS LIKE NUTMEG,ASAFOETIDA,MANY MILD TYPES OF ALCOHOLS ETC ..ALL BEING INTOXICANTS  CHAPTER 5  SIPARA 7 SURAH AL MAAIDAH AYAT 90, 91.

Imam Husain (as) wrote to Muawiya (l.a.) upbraiding and rebuking him for actions he had taken; in it he wrote thus:

‘You have appointed as ruler your son [Yazid, (l.a)], a juvenile who drinks wine and sports with dogs; thus you have dishonoured the trust placed in you and brought detriment upon your subjects and not fulfilled the obligation of your Master. How can you appoint over the community of Mohammed (sa) a man who drinks intoxicants? The drinker of intoxicants is amongst the profligate and from those of vile character. When a man who drinks cannot be trusted with even a dirham [penny] then how can he be appointed to rule over the Muslim Ummah? Shortly you will come to face your actions whilst the pages of forgiveness will have been closed.’

ITS SO FRIGHTENEING  FACT FOR US TO ACKNOWLEDGE OF HEREAFTER !

Molana Ali Zainulabedin (as) states; ‘Wine is of five kinds; from dried dates, raisins, wheat, barley and honey aside from grapes. Every intoxicant is a form of ‘khamr’.

HOMOEOPATHIC EXTRA NEUTRAL ALCOHOL COMES FROM  GRAINS OR SUGAR MOSTLY....

Khamr is derived from takhmir (covering something) and that is to cover it up so that it warms and ferments.’

A lengthy disputation concerning the unlawfulness of intoxicants has been related to us from Ahlul Bayt (as) which we bring here in a shortened form and what we have stated here is sufficient and beyond dispute.

Rasulallah (sa) forbade the use of wine and intoxicants for medical treatment or for administration to children or animals. He said, ‘The sin is on he that gives wine to drink.’

ALL ALLOPATHY ,HOMOEOPATHY ,AYURVEDA MEDICAL MEN MUST BOTHER TO THOROUGHLY INVESTIGATE OR FACE THE WRATH OF ALLAH SUBHANAHU

Imam Al-Sadiq (as)  was asked about the drinking of ‘fuqqa’ (barley wine) and he asked the questioner as to how it is brewed. The questioner explained the process to which the Imam (as) replied, ‘It is forbidden, do not drink it.’

Imam Al-Sadiq (as) further states, ‘Wine and intoxicants cannot be used for medical treatment or by women to beautify their hair.’ He related from Molana Ali (as) that, ‘Allah has not bestowed the quality of healing on impure things which He has declared forbidden.’

Means Shampoos,creams, washes etc NOT allowed right cetyl alcohol stearyl

Imam Al-Sadiq (as) was asked about vessels that have been contaminated by traces of wine and he said, the wine or juice has not been forbidden due to the container but any intoxicant has been forbidden be it in large or small quantity.’

BEYOND ALL DOUBTS WE JUST CANNOT USE ANY MILD STRONG TYPE EXTRA NEUTRAL DENATURED ETC ANY INTOXICANT OR  SUBSTANCE THAT CREAT IT IN LARGER QUANTITIES SMALLER TOO ARE BANNED

THE GREAT LEGEND SENIOR MOST  HOMOEOPATH AND AALIM IN TERMS OF THE KNOWLEDGE OF SHARIAT,  DR SK  YUSUF BHAI CHANDABHAI   AND HIS FATHER  DURING TAHER SAIFUDDIN AQA RA  ZAMAN GOT RAZA MUBARAK TO PRACTICE HOMOEOPATHY ONLY AFTER THEY SHOWED AND CONFIRMED TO MAULA THAT WE DRY THE PILLS  AFTER SOAKING IN OUR DILUTIONS THEN AND ONLY THEN NO EFFECT OF THE ALCOHOL WILL REMAIN AS DR HAHMENANN ALWAYS GUIDES US TO SOAK AND DRY OR WIPE THE GLOBULES BEFORE TAKING

 WE KNOW MUCH MORE ABOUT OUR MEDICINES 

Once a person, after reading a critical article about homeopathy, asked me out of his curiosity, “How homeopaths can practice without knowing anything about their medicines?” He thought that we just give some sweet pills blindly as the critics say there is nothing in homeopathic medicines. Such fellows are not aware about the information we have about our medicines. Here are a few things we know about our medicines. 

The following details are available in the homeopathic literature about our medicines. It is also found applicable and reproducible in our day-to-day practice. 

1. Source of medicines, its chemical, physical and biological properties, details about active principles, toxicological data, best time to collect the medicinal sources, detailed preparation and preservation of medicines etc. There are also several studies done on higher potencies of our medicines including most advanced nano technology. Many studies are also in progress like every system. In this matter we are taking help of experts in science and technology. 100 percent information is not available in any system in this world. 

2. Effect of those medicines on healthy provers in the form of Materia Medica, which includes source books and clinical Materia Medica and therapeutic books. 

3. There is mention of sphere of action and location affinity of each and every medicine (not just systems, but even specific locations), the sides, specific location affinities such as muco-cutaneous junction, mastoid process, intercostals space, etc. All these details are very clearly mentioned in our homeopathic books.

4. The duration of action of medicines in hours and days given in our medical literature. 

5. Our books have given the special affinity of our medicines to act in different age groups and the nature and type of people who will get benefited by the medicines.

 

6. The list of medicines that can be useful during some particular seasons and the medicines to be avoided during some climatic conditions and other circumstances are also given. 

7. The type of foods and beverages that can affect the action of medicines including antidoting the medicinal action.

 

8. The time and the situation in which a medicine can work better in an individual patient are also given. 

9. The medicine that can be given when one remedy does not help in a particular condition or sickness is mentioned in various books. 

10. Which remedy can be used for completing the curative action of previous remedy in a particular condition is mentioned in various books. 

11. The medicine that can be given to remove the ill effects of the previous remedy is give. Boenninghausen’s Therapeutic Pocket Book has a section exclusively for remedy relationship, using that, a list of remedies related to one particular case can be selected for follow-up. 

12. The series of medicines that can be given one after the other for a best result is also available in our literature. 

13. The same homeopathic medicines are available in various potencies that can be applied as per various features of the case. There are guidelines for the selection of a potency and dosage. 

14. There are medicines listed for the side effects of various food items, beverages and medicines. No other medical literature provide such a long list of medicines for the side effects of various items we come across in our day to day life.

 

15. There are several medicines that can remove the troubles due to various things like life style changes, emotional stress, injuries, exposure to external agents, etc. 

16. We also have data on medicines that works in specific potency in certain situations and the best potency for children, terminally ill patients and patients with low vitality. 

17. We also have books that teach us about the symptoms that show improvement in cases, and the symptoms that show wrong direction of cure and bad prognosis. 

The above mentioned points are scattered in our homeopathic books, which include Organon of Medicine, Lesser writings, homeopathic philosophy books, source books and other materia medica books, various repertories, Homeopathic pharmacy books, homeopathic therapeutics books and various books on clinical experience, and research works done in the field of homeopathy. Homeopathic magazines, articles, thesis written by doctors and paper presentations by pioneers and contemporary physicians also provided us extra knowledge. 

So, we have all such details available. And using such information in our day to day practice is our main task.              Happy Homeopathy Clinic. Dr.Fatema Adnan (Palgharwala),09762688352,   https://www.happyhomeopathy.com . Cancer is fast,We are Faster....

CANCER CURE WITH KERBA(Amber). Brief Study By Dr.Fatema Palgharwala

KERBA(Amber) AND CANCER

A Brief Study – Presented by Dr Fatema Saifuddin Palgharwala

As a practicing Homeopathic  Doctor, my clinical work involves dealing with patients with every possible kind of cancer. Cancer, a condition which has become as common as malaria or jaundice, definitely calls for research in new cures, new medicines and better care. As part of my clinical research and development in the cures for cancer I happened to come across Kerba studies and discovered that patients who wear Kerba and take homeopathic treatment are 20% on the recovering side than those who are only on treatment. Amber being a homoeopathy proven remedy also, proves beneficial for cancer. 

This lethal combination of Kerba and treatment can stand against any cancer. Wearing of a Kerba helps the patient deal with the cancer with added mental strength and energy, hence enhancing the effects of the treatment. Homoeopathy Treatment of Cancer at Happy Homoeopathy Centre is based on the Phenomenon ‘Like Cures Like’ and is a Holistic approach.

Here arises a question, are there any Deeni articles available on Kerba? Well most of the knowledge about Kerba, has been imparted to me by my mentor and the remaining is my personal research. If there are any Deeni articles available, then I do not know about them, but one thing is for sure, that MAULA (TUS)’s pak (pure) hands are always adorned by a Kerba Tasbeeh. There is not much written about Kerba as since times immemorial Kerba was always considered a prestigious possession, hence all information was kept secret, and secret prevails today too.

BUY YOUR KERBA - Please book a prior appointment on call 09762688352, at my clinic, located at 33, Kapadia complex, Khokha Bazaar, Mumbai - 3

KERBA DETERMINATION – An ideal Kerba is determined by studying your energy type, which is a study I have done with immense effort and deep passion. This is done through a personal meeting or with a latest snap/picture. Once a suitable Kerba is found for you, you may decide on a date to pick your bead.

PAYMENT OPTIONS - Cash or ACC Transfer. Kerba will be dispatched only after payments are received.

TRANPORTING THE KERBA – The Kerba is directly handed over to the wearer or transported by a reliable carrier, as couriers and other transport companies are not safe.

COLOUR, SIZE AND QUALITY – The usual colour of the Kerba is always between deep yellow to deep brown. The Kerba for you will depend on the mining find. The difference in colour is an indication of how old the Kerba is. Kerba never shines, its opaque. It is neither glass nor plastic. It's a TREE EXTRACT.  A regular jeweller who has not studied Kerba will never be able to identify it.

HOW TO WEAR KERBA – Kerba is to be worn either on the neck or wrist. Please note that it must NEVER be worn with any other metals.

For further queries please feel free to call me Dr Fatema Palgharwala @ 09762688352.